I want to apoligize now for my spelling and grammer, not that i really care what you fellows think, I'm just apoligizing as you try to decipher what I am saying...

So, a friend of mine has been blowing me off and being a big jerk lately... so naturally I just let him be, and whatev. Well, he has also been rather- selfish and self involved and everything is depressing and horrible in his life, and no one can love him enough, or care about him, and his life was just meant to be sucky... I personally am a happy, carefree, loving person, and I believe that your happiness is in your hands, you chose to be depressed or not. So, I send him cards saying I love you, and that I hope he has an amazing day... call him and leave him funny messages. But no love in return. So, whatev. I back off. Come to find out, he goes to a neurologist, and is diagnosed with psycho-pathic tendesies...

Should I care then that he isn't being a friend in return? Or, should I still require him to be a friend to me if he wants a friendship with me? does that make sense? Anyways, what do you guys think?

*sorry this isn't a fun post, or interesting really... just a thought I've been wondering.

...im begaffled...i think i just made up a new word

I think you should do a little bit of both. By actually requiring something out of him, it could actually help as a treatment but then again, keep the situation at hand in mind while phasing in your requirements~ can't be to harsh. Be a lovah, not a hatah.

Begaffled is a fun word.

You should be nice to him, but not like stalky nice. If he isn't returning friendship, give him some space, and then he'll notice. And stuff.

And more stuff.....

I'm crazy......He's crazier evidentally.... I've got actue skitsczhophrenia with a bit of paranoid deluisia.

But thats a self diagnosis...a failr accurate one though...

Kick him in the shin...he should notice that...I always do...

lol, nice self evaluation....ne ways jesus, just back off, give some space, see what happens, the best usually come of things when patience is invovled